First of all. let me tell you about last night...
bed - 7.30 Not tired and I had to stay with him until 8.30
10.30 he woke up - I think we disturbed him when we went to bed. He went back to sleep quit quickly but then woke again at
midnight - after about 45 minutes he was asleep
2.00 am awake - again took about 45 minutes
3.30 am awake - back to sleep really quickly
5.am awake - and still is and it is now 9 am.
I can't go on like this. I was falling asleep at work yesterday and I suspect by this afternoon I will be doing the same.
the night waking is getting worse, at an exponential rate..
Our health visitor applauded us for sticking with it but told my wife yesterday he is merely
getting his own way and I am now inclined to agree...
She suggested we stick with it for another week if we want to, but also said she felt it was time to shut him in his room and within a few days he will get the message that we are not coming back..
We have tried talking to him and he appears to understand what we are saying, even saying himself that he will stay in bed and not get out. Last night I thought we were going to have a miracle on our hands as he let me get to the door after I said good night, but then jumped out of bed and said stay with me...
He has a handful of soft toys that he cuddles but he is a bit fickle and doesn't have one that he can't be separated from.
A week ago I was feeling positive that we were doing something, no We are desperately unhappy and cannot see light at the end of the tunnel....
Our 8 week old is now sleeping really well (10pm to 4am (feed) then asleep til 9am)