Thank you so much for checking in on us
I always feel so bad posting constantly about our struggles... since I know everyone is going through struggles so reading a check in on us is really appreciated!
Carmela is JUST getting over an ear infection (you called it the other day) and bad cold. During that time she was sick, she slept, slept and slept. 13-14 hour days!!!!! Oh did it feel good to have such a sleeper on my hands!!!!!!!
So its really hard to say whether or not the cuddles worked, since when I started them, it was the same time she was sick and she was falling asleep standing up so I think she would have went in just fine. But I am continuing them.
Our issue is now that she's feeling better, we're starting in the same place we left off I think. Yesterday I didn't put her in for a nap until 1 p.m. because our painter was here and I really wanted to see if he would be done by the time I put her in. It didn't work out that way and I put her in anyway. She wasn't showing any tired signs earlier anyway. She went straight to sleep after the cuddles though which was great, but then woke up 1 hour later. I'm not sure if it was because she was sick or if the painter woke her.
Last night at 6:30 p.m. she started getting cranky. I brought her upstairs and put her in her crib at 7:10 which was 10 mins later than normal and 40 mins after she showed her tired signs. I hope that was our mistake. It took her 1.5 hours to fall asleep last night
and don't you know she was up before 6:00 this morning. So needless to say, she was TIRED this morning. At 11:00 it was a struggle to keep her up in the car, so we came right home. I kept her up for lunch (early lunch at 11:45 instead of 12) and she ate real fast and then we cleaned up and she still seemed tired so I put her in at 12:20. She fell right asleep. We'll see for how long.
My issue right now is that bedtime is set for a LONG time for 7 p.m. I am going to be so strict with that. It seems to help her when I am strict. And now I think I'm going to go to 12:00 lunch with a 12:30-12:45 nap. And be strict with that. I feel we are changing too much whether it's 12:15 or 1:00...and although with her being sick, it really did depend on her mood, I think I have to become stricter with it.
Thanks so much for asking and sorry for the book. I am so ready to get passed our sleeping issues and I think the 10 minute cuddle is in the right direction...I'll keep you posted.
HOW are you guys doing and how are you both feeling?