Hi ladies!!
I'm actually in the process of making a sticky on the "HOW TO DROP A DREAMFEED" from Tracy's book. Hopefully it'll be up in the next couple of days. But in a nutshell, you take away an ounce from the bottle and move it up 1/2 hr. For example if you are feeding 5 ounces at 10:30pm, the first night I would offer 4 at 10:30, then 3 at 10:00, 2 @ 9:30 until you are at zero. Hope that makes sense.
I always dropped the DF cold turkey at 3-4mos with no problems. Could you try that too and see what happens