This will probably not be accepted happily in this website, but not that I think CIO is okay, but sometime you have to do what you have to do.
My experience, is that I have a 15 YEAR old, and a 1.5 year old, and now a 2 month old.
I am trying SO hard with the new one to stick with the BW, but I have to say at this point that SOMETIMES it's harder than it has to be, that is, I think we have to remember that our babies are their own people and they'll do what they want. After I read the BW, I think "well, okay, all I have to do is "this", and my baby will be "perfect"....
Well, that hasn't happened. yet.
But, I will tell you that my 15 year old is very well adjusted (honours in high school, etc) so I've done something right@