Hi there,
My husband and I are desperately need some help here. Here is the situation with our little Matthew.....
- Matthew is 2 and 1/2 months old. He is currently on a 4 hours. Everything is normal during the day. He eats, stays up to play and sleep without a fuss. I usually swaddle him and give him a dummy and he falls asleep on his own. I know for a baby his age, he should be on a 3 hours routine. I have tried but he won't finish his full feed. He also putting on weight nicely on the 4 hours routine. So I don't want to go backwards. He has about 3 naps a day and all around 1 - 1 and 1/2 hours.
- Everynight he goes down around 7.30pm (last feed usually around 5.30pm). No problem with that, he usually sleeps right through to 1 or 2am. Then he will wake up for another feed. He will then wake up at 4am again. I have tried to cluster and dream feed him, but he is still waking up at 2 and again 4am. When he is awake, it usually pretty easy to get him to sleep again. I figured that his night time waking is habitual. So I have tried to set the alarm 1 hour before his usual wake time, but he still wakes up the same time. So we end up waking up 4 times in 5 hours!!!! I have tried everything Tracy Hogg has recommended in her book. But they do nothing but creating more problems.
We need some assistance here!! What should I do? Go back to no dream feed and let him wake up at the usual time?