My soon to be 17 month old DS has been what you would call a 'bad' sleeper from day 1. He sleeps lightly, wakes at the least sound, wakes up frequently, takes a looong time to settle to sleep and when he wakes up during the night(which he does every night) takes a loong time to settle back down again.
We have a pretty set routine, get home at about 7:30, get in the bath, get the Pj's on, then reading and cuddle time in my bed. By about 8:15 it's lights out, but I stay with him until he's asleep (I tried the CIO method for 3 weeks, he screamed for over 4 hours every night, I never went in ONCE, I almost lost my mind, so NEVER AGAIN!)
The issue is that he takes a very long time to go to sleep, at least 45 minutes, usually over 1 hour. He can't seem to find a comfy spot and just keeps fidgeting. He bangs his leg on the bed, he bangs his hands on the bed, he twists and turns.
Once he's asleep, I move him to his crib. He will usually wake up during the night, and when he does the ONLY way I've ever been able to get him back to sleep is taking him in my bed with me. I've tried everything else trust me!
Once he's in bed with me, he will usually wake at least once more, sometimes more. When he does, he can take up to 1 hour to go back to sleep. He starts the fidgeting again, bang the leg, bang the hand, twist and turn, all the while doing this whinny, half-crying that leads me to believe that he really WANTS to sleep but just can't.
Any and all suggestions or comments are welcome, I need all the help I can get!