How should I begin... I think I was not well advised in the beginning (didn't know Tracy Hogg's books...) so I started everything wrong. First of all, the first three months scenario: We moved to a different country and to two different cities when she wasn't even 3 mo. We only settled down when she was four mo, where she got her own room and didn't have a big problem to adapt to it.
In the beginning, it was only the problem of not sleeping through the night. I used to rush to her at the first sign of crying and breastfeed her. She stopped breastfeeding about two weeks ago but still takes a bottle at around 1am and another one around 5am. The thing is, now she won't go back to her crib. She cries and screams as soon as I start descending her to her mattress after falling asleep again (after bottle). She sleeps in my arms usually after taking a bottle of milk around 8pm and when I try to put her in her crib, she cries and screams.
I know I need to start from scratch, but how? Force her into the crib? Let her cryit out (I've tried twice and I felt somebody was tearing my heart in two).
I really need some help! Thanks