My 2 year 8 month dd's sleep has gone completely haywire and I'm looking for advice on whether she's ready to drop her nap (although I'm SOOO not ready!).
This all started in October of last year. She had been sleeping c. 7.30 through to c. 6.30/7.00 (dh's alarm wakes her at 6.35 in the week
), and having a 1 and a half hour nap. However, in October her very back molars started to come through and she started not settling until about 8.30 and often waking anytime from 5.30 onwards. This happened to us before when she was teething so I expected just to have to ride it out until the teeth were through and all would be well.
Anyway, the teeth were all through by about the end of February, but by this time dd had developed a water infection. She had a course of antibiotics for it, which, along with the drop in appetite (and fruit consumption!) gave her constipation. She finished the antibiotics and the infection came back - she is now on a preventative dose of antibiotics and we have been referred to the hospital. She is also on Lactulose for the constipation, which gives her bad wind!
Anyway, during all this, her sleep has gone from bad to worse. Her naps dropped from one and a half hours to about an hour, and in the past week and a half she has missed 3 naps as she has either just not gone to sleep or she has had huge tantrums cos she doesn't want to sleep, so we have given up after an hour or so of trying. At bedtime she is settling anytime from 8pm to 9pm (once it was even 10pm!) and she is wanting her tummy rubbing cos of the wind. On days when she hasn't napped she has only settled earlier once (7.30) and her behaviour ranges from horribly naughty and seeming overtired to coping amazingly well.
The water infection seem to have cleared up now and I'm going to take her off the Lactulose in about a week once her bowels have recovered from the constipation, which hopefully should take care of the tummy rubbing, but the sleep problems still persist. She looks absolutely haggard, with big black circles under her eyes, and she still seems like she needs a nap (giddy and naughty, throwing tantrums etc, suggesting she's tired), but I've tried taking her up earlier and it doesn't seem to make any difference.
Can anyone hell? I'm going slowly insane here!
Thanks in anticipation
Jill