My l.o. is 4 months old and it's been rcommended to me that I put her on a 4-hour EASY. However- a huge problem is the fact that (a) I have spent over 2 weeks trying to extend her naps (she still can't do it on her own) and (2) she is very small, and has a weight check coming because of it. How do I put her on a 4 -hour EASY when she still gets cranky after an hour 1/2 of awake time? (especially in the morning). And I have to stay in her nursery the entire time I am trying to extend her naps because she just isn't doing it on her own yet.
Her routine
wake 7:30/8 (after dozens of nigth wakings)
8 feed
9:30 nap (sit in nursery to help her)
11 feed
12:45 nap
2:15 feed
4:15-4:45 catnap
5:30 feed
6:30 catnap
9:00 feed & bedtime (we are trying to move it up)
HELP!!!!!