I am in the middle of tackling night waking AND short afternoon naps w/ my dd. Below is dd schedule and questions. I would be so grateful for any help or advice.
6:30-7:00 Wake
7:00 BF
activity time
8:00 solids
activity time (play mat, tummy time, johnny jumper)
9:00 nap (usually 1- 1 1/2 hr)
activity time
11:00 BF
activity time
12:00 solids
1-1:30 Nap (usually 38-45 minutes)
3:00 BF
4:15 catnap (30-45 min)
7:00 BF, then bath
7:30 bed
Nighttime consists of a 10/11:00 feeding (used to be a df but now dd wakes up first) and then several night wakings (I feed her b/w 2-4 once). I am working (beginning last night) on phasing out the early morning (2/4:00) feed.
I can't, for the life of me, get her to extend her afternoon nap. I have tried w2s, p/u-p/d (for her age) and shortening her morning nap to see if she would legnthen her afternoon nap. She is really fussy when she wakes from the short afternoon nap. I don't know what I am doing wrong or what I can do to change this. I know she is tired.
Right now she is crying (after I have tried 2 times to extend her afternoon nap), I laid her down at 12:30 and she slept time 1:15. I tried for 40 minutes, took a 10 minute break and then tried again till 2:50. It is her 3:00 feeding time and I am throughly confused as whether I keep attempting to get her to take more of a nap after I feed her...or do I let it go, give her a catnap or just put her to sleep earlier tonight. I don't want it to screw up her nightime sleep.
....I ended up feeding her and I plan to let her stay away till around 4:00 when I will let her take a catnap. I don't know if this is right or not. Does anyone have any advice/suggestions?
TIA
Shelby