Thanks for the hugs. I'm feeling pretty low these days. I did rule out an ear infection by bringing him to the doctor the other day. I did some more reading on nursing strikes and there have been at least 5 out of the 8 or 9 factors that can cause it going on in our lives lately including a cold, teething, Grandma coming for a week visit with her dog who we've discovered my ds is allergic too plus I was away from him more this week and off our regular feeding schedule for a day.
He fed in the morning yesterday then had a good feed before bed last night but refused for the first morning feed and since. I haven't pushed him at all but it feels like the beginning of the end. I was really hoping to keep a morning, supper and bedtime feed after starting work but I wonder how long it will be before he just refuses to feed even at night.
I was really hoping to feed him at least as long as my first ds...two years but its not working out that way. This will be my last child and I wish I wasn't so crushed by his refusal. I sit an ball my way through pumping somehow feeling its just not right. I guess I have to try and look on the bright side as my dh says. My ds is making it easy for me to wean him before work.
Has anyone heard of a baby refusing for 3 days then going back to it or should I just give up now?