Hi there,
I will admit that almost 9 months after initiating EASY(he'll be 1 on May21) I am still hell bent on Lizwe getting his first nap, and I still complain about noise level if it gets to a certain point. Having said that though, I am much more flexible in the afternoon. That is when we do our outtings....and people visit etc...
When I began EASY,I basically grounded myself to the house, just to make sure everything was in place. I don't freak if he sleeps in the car, or in the stroller(that never happens though) --I think it may help them adjust down the road to other arrangements.
About church..I feel that since my sons AM nap is important..I leave him
with DH, I don't know if you have this luxury, but if I did not..then I wouldn't be going due to the fact that if he misses THAT morning nap..the rest of the day is a total mess in terms of everything. Once he is on one nap....hopefully soon--11-1 or something, I will take him with me
The stress is normal....but it should lessen as time goes by, and as your routine becomes more steady etc.
Use the A time to get out of the house..to have people over etc...and just startout small..and you'll be more used to it eventually
HTH
Sarah