Tida - My LO was in the NICU for nearly five weeks. Her main problem was learning to eat. She was pretty content to just let the feed tube do all the work! She seems to be catching up just fine, putting on weight, etc. Was your LO in the NICU as well? Not a pleasant few weeks, for sure.
Thanks so much for the words of encouragement. I know what you mean about the one bad day! I'm always second guessing myself and my efforts. I know we have been lucky with her night sleep patterns. It certainly wasn't anything I did--she just dropped her midnight and 3 am feedings on her own and started sleeping through. As far as her short naps, she is completely erratic. Sometimes she wakes up crying and grumpy, and has grumpy evenings. Other days, she seems pretty happy when she wakes up and lasts the evening without too much of a meltdown. Good luck to you in continuing the EASY routine. I know it will get better for you. Let me know how it goes.
Stacy - thank you also for your advice. It definitely helps! Quick question - if I'm not extending naps, and she sleeps for only 30-45 minutes, how does that affect the "A" in EASY? Her current schedule goes something like this:
6:30 am - Wake, E
7 am - A
8:30 am - S (have been trying to get her to sleep until at least 9:30)
10:30 am - E
11 am - A
12:30 pm - S (have been trying to get her to sleep until at least 1:30)
2:30 pm - E
3 pm - A
5ish pm - catnap (usually twenty to forty-five minutes)
6:30 pm - E
7 pm bath, bedtime routine, usually small bottle
7:30 or 8 pm - bed (depending on how tired she seems)
Most days, I have not been able to extend her naps, but she tends to get sleepy and show sleep cues after about 1.5 hours of A time. So would I just consider the times she gets up early, extended A time? And if she seems to need it, should I just continue to let her have multiple short naps? I hope this makes sense. Please let me know if I'm not explaining well.
Thanks again to both of you!