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almost 11 months old and waking up in the night
« on: May 03, 2006, 14:25:25 pm »
my little boy is starting to wake up in the middle of the night and we are finding it soooooooo dificult to get him to go back to sleep.

he's always been a good sleeper and has mostly slept through the night since he was like 3 months old.

this is our typical routine

6:30 AM --wake up
6:30 to 8:30 AM --eat and play (breakie is usually toast with a fruit)
8:30 AM -- nap
somewhere between 9 and 10 wake up
9-10 AM -- play
11:30 AM --lunch (usually fruit with cheese and yogurt)
noon -- we usually go out to play groups or for a walk
somewhere between 2 and 3:30 PM --goes down for nap
wakes up usually around 4:30--5 PM
5:30 PM --  Supper (is whatever we're eating something like spaghetti with sauce and a veggie)
7:30 PM -- bottle
somewhere between 7:30 and 9:30 PM bedtime.

andrew is bottle fed.  the night waking is generally just once, but it can take up to 2 hours to get him to go back to sleep.  we don't think he's teething right now, but he has been drooling a lot the last week or so.  he has a soother and a bunny that he sleeps with (although the bunny is not necessary for sleep, the husband gives it to him b/c he thinks it's cute).

i've tried putting him down earlier and later and nothing seems to help.  he still wakes up at around 2:30--3:00 AM.  he's not hungry, doesn't want to have a bottle.  he thinks it's play time.

we've tried for an hour to get him to go back to sleep (a variety of things:  pick up/put down, waiting it out, feeding him).  it seems like he'll almost calm down and then work himself back into a frenzy.  eventually we'll just cave and bring him into bed with us.  but sometimes even then he doesn't sleep.  he'll lay there and it seems like he almost falls asleep and then he jerks his arms to wake himself up. 

this has been going on for about 2 weeks now and sucking the life out of his parents.

any suggestions?  i've tried shorter naps during the day, longer naps diuring the day.  earlier bedtime, later bedtime.  nothing seems to be helping.
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Re: almost 11 months old and waking up in the night
« Reply #1 on: May 03, 2006, 16:56:36 pm »
it seems lo isn't quite tired enough to stay asleep at night. you really imo could stand to extend A time to about 3 hrs in the am (do it slowly of course) and to 3.75-4hrs in the pm (again...slowly...)(before the second nap) and also limit naps a bit - you will figure out what is right for you lo - my lo is a bit younger but generally naps a total of no more than 2 hrs a day. i think a combo - extending A time and limiting naps will be the answer here.
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Re: almost 11 months old and waking up in the night
« Reply #2 on: May 04, 2006, 02:31:53 am »
i hope you're right.  he had 2 45 minute naps today.  i'm praying he sleeps through the night. 

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Re: almost 11 months old and waking up in the night
« Reply #3 on: May 04, 2006, 16:43:08 pm »
let me know how things are going! :)
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Re: almost 11 months old and waking up in the night
« Reply #4 on: May 05, 2006, 13:48:12 pm »
yippee!!!

the last 2 nights andrew has woken up but my husband has been able to give him back the soother and shush him back to sleep. 

the first night he woke up at 5 AM (which is early, but manageable).  this morning he woke up at 6 AM (much more tolerable).

lets hope this continues. ;D

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Re: almost 11 months old and waking up in the night
« Reply #5 on: May 05, 2006, 14:23:20 pm »
 ;D ;D
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Re: almost 11 months old and waking up in the night
« Reply #6 on: May 06, 2006, 02:42:54 am »
this morning 6:30, with 1 night time shushing.

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thanks so much for the advice.  although i do miss the longer naps.

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Re: almost 11 months old and waking up in the night
« Reply #7 on: May 06, 2006, 04:14:17 am »
i hear you on the longer naps too! soon enough lo will be getting 1 longer nap and you can enjoy a little more Y time without it being broken up! congrats on the progress!

btw don't want to 'scare' you but there is often regression with any change or progression, so if it does happen it is normal and  just stay consistant with whatever you are doing..it should all work out  :)

keep up the great work!!
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