Yep, I said hit and miss... my dd woke at 3am last night and I fed her, she then slept until 7 for her next feed
. You are sooo right about rather doing a night wake than the early wake! I had a total of more sleep last night with the nw. For the 4 hour easy, some try to push the 4 hour but you're right to take his cue and switch when he's good and ready, making it a gradual transition. He'll show you when he's ready.