Well for the past 3 nights, Trevor has been waking up around 3am not because he's hungry but for what reason I have no clue
. I am use to him having nw but usually he will go back to sleep after a diaper change and/or bottle. But the last few nights, it has become very frustrating cuz we don't know what lo wants. And worse of all, my dh and I are having disagreements as to what to do. DH believes in CIO and I've tried shush-pat and PU/PD but lo will not go back to sleep and is wide wake (almost like he's had a big cup of coffee) until 4:30am. If we ignore lo he gets upset and will scream for attention and if we try to make him go to sleep he won't do that either. This is behaviour is driving us crazy
and is out of the ordinary for my lo.
Currently this is what our 3 hour EASY schedule looks like (we use to start at 8am):
7:30am Eat
8:00am Activity
9:00am Sleep
10:30am Eat
11:00am Activity
12:00pm Sleep
1:30pm Eat
2:00pm Activity
3:00pm Sleep
4:30pm Eat
5:00pm Activity
7:30pm Eat/Sleep
10-10:30pm Dreamfeed
3am Wakes up sometimes for bottle/diaper change
I've cut out his catnap and moved his bed time earlier and I'm slowly extending his A times and feeds by 15 mins to eventually get to a 4 hour EASY.
Somebody please tell me what can I do to make him go back to sleep at 3 in the morning when he won't go to sleep!!!! I can't take these weird nw anymore and ready to throw out motherhood
