I'm sooo tired! DS is waking 5-6 times a nite. Since he's bf, I usually feed if it's been 3 hrs since last feed. I'm just afraid he's really hungry, and w/bf how do you know? He usually eats well when I feed, not just suck/pacify.
I added a df at 8:30 (cluster) trying to tank him up (before he was waking as early as 9:30) thinking his nw were hunger related. I'm afraid I am addicted to the paci, because he'll go right back to sleep if I give it (but sometimes wake up again in 40 min, or an hour, or 2 hrs). I'm afraid to let him fuss/cry too long because I'm afraid he'll get so worked up he'll never go back to sleep. naps aren't great...if I intervene he can usually sleep 1.5 hrs in AM and 2 in afternoon, but sometimes it's a lost cause. Sometimes skips catnap.
I feel hopeless. He's 5 mo for goodness sakes! I dream of 4 straight hours of sleep. That's sad. I'm afraid I need to wean paci, but we have a lot of long car trips ahead in the next few months (one of 5 hrs each way and one of 9 hrs each way) and I think we'll all need the paci then. As for pu/pd I have tried and he screamed so hard and so loud.....he didn't calm at all by the 5 min of holding. I just had to pd, and he screamed and on it went. It's a last resort, right? Any other ideas I can try???
How old is your child? 5 mo
What’s his/her daily routine? 4 hr EASY (currently stretching A time from 2 to 2:15/2:30)
6:30 -up for the day & eat (may or may not have been awake for up to an hour before)
7-A
8:30-S
10:30 -E
11-A
12:30~1-S
2:30-E
3-A
4:30-catnap
5:10-A
5:30-E
6-bedtime routine (massage, last tank up bf, song, quiet time)
7-crib, usually out w/in 10 min
(I also just started a df at 8:30 to tank him up)
What’s nap routine? 2+ catnap, with 15 min winddown-book, song, etc
How long are naps? 35 min wakes up, but usually goes back down for total of 1.5 to 2 hrs
Do you bottle or breastfed?? bf
How much? or how long? 5-7 min per side...sometimes 1 side, sometimes both
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed) both if he'll take them
How many wakes per night? 5-6
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? I usually feed if it's been 3 hrs since last feed, and re diaper too, since he's eating, and surely peeing. when I don't feed, he fusses till he mantas till he cries for help. I paci, p/s
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry? I try to wait for the all out cry
What have you tried to settle?? paci, p/s (I have tried pu/pd but like a bad mommy didn't follow through. he screams louder and harder than I have ever heard)
What do you do for A time and how long is it? 2:15~2:30 or so of awake time, in morning: bath, exersaucer, songs, dancing, etc. In afternoon/evening more low key, books, songs, dancing, mirror play, blocks, joining us for dinner, etc.
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? teething maybe??? but this waking has been going on for quite a while
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? (for LO’s under 6 months) no
Do they have a prop? If so what is it? paci
Do they have a lovie? recently introduced a bear