This was my experience: My ds was a decent napper once he passed the 6 mo mark so I thought for sure he would be taking 2 naps well past his first birthday (and I was so happy of this fact
). However, he had other plans. Sometime after his first birthday, when he was almost 13 months, he would go for days w/o taking an afternoon nap. I would put him in his crib because it was part of his daily routine but he wouldn't sleep. He just played. So I continued that for a while but eventually stopped trying to get him to nap.
So, per Florencia's suggestion, tell us what the current routine is and why you think your lo is ready to drop the nap. If she's still grouchy in the afternoons I would say be thankful you still have that extra "You" time (I miss that the most
) and don't try to drop the nap yet.