thanks so much for your words of encouragement!... it's given us the extra push to sort this out!!
well what an interesting day we've had! i feel we've had a bit of a breakthrough and past step 1!.. yay!
after last night's botched wi/wo attempt, mia slept without a peep all noght until 7:30 this morning... i'd expected a few night wakings and a rough night.....
so for her morning nap, she was fighting and started crying in a distressed way when her story books came out.... she became overtired and so we decided, 'hey she needs sleep, and this isn't going to happen, so lets take her for a walk in the pram and try again this afternoon... so we did and she slept for an hour in her pram....
after her lunch, we decided to play with her in her cot.... GREAT IDEA! she started crying if we left the room for even 1 second, but after a few times going out and bringing toys back in, she was happy and laughing and then cried when we wanted to take her out!! during play time, she kept going bakc into her room and talking to her doll in the cot!
after reading sooo much on these forums last night i finally felt confident to go ahead and start wi/wo properly... so around 1.30 this afternoon she was looking tired so we started quiet time with a drink of warm milk and 2 stories... she was calm and happy the whole time.... i took her onto her room and continued with the routine, then put her in the cot and walked out for 5 seconds.. she cried straight away and i went in, lay her down and then went out again.... after about 4 times, when i went in she laid herself down!... then i'd walk out and she was ok for about 10 seconds... we only did this for about 10 minutes before i walked out and she didn't cry one bit! i stood outside the door and counted to 1000!! she was just talking to herself.... so she has been in there for 1.5 hrs now and hasn;t gone to sleep, but she's had 5 minutes of silence for a few times here and there..... THIS IS A BREAK THROUGH!! at least she isn't distressed.....
i'm going to get her up now and get her dinner then have an early bedtime of 6pm i think and try again.... wish me luck... hopefullly she;ll actually go to sleep tonight!!!
there's hope for us all!!
xx