Thanks Imsmum & Florencia for your replys. Our baby is still in our room so noise only really bothers him when its in our room. If she comes into our room when we are awake we say "back to bed" and she runs of down the hallway and climbs into bed, sometimes she goes straight back to sleep other times it takes a little longer. One of us just sits quietly by her closed door until she is asleep, then we leave the room.
Its such a shame that we have started that as up until now she has always settled beautifuly and if she was still awake in her cot would talk or sing herself to sleep, but of course now she knows she can get out of bed, The very first night she was in her big bed i stayed out of the room but it just seemed to wind her up more me leaving each time and as i stayed in her room she eventually settled. I would say as a baby she is a an angel/textbook baby and as she has developed she is def spirited..but still an angel
What worries me about the stairgate is that, yes, she prob would stand at it crying, poss try and climb over it (shes quite a climber!) and that it isn't really teaching her anything. I would much rather put into practise a routine where she knows if she stays in her room..not necessarily her bed past 5am, and then doesn't come to us until 6am..or we go to her...and is then rewarded. We started something last week if she settled and stayed in her room, the first night she did but came in at 5.30am which wasn't great but better, so we gave her a little suprise from the bag so she got the idea of it..since then, we have been stumped as we don't always know shes in our room..but i guess really we should have continued and then maybe she would think again before coming in. I just brought some small £1-2 toys but perhaps she should "earn" 3 stickers, say, before she gets anything?
Perhaps we need to set a few/many nights aside where we make sure we ALWAYS take her back, even if we are shattered and hope it will be worth it in the end!
Ohh, its so tricky! We are having the toughest times at the mo..her little brother sleeps very well but could do with sleeping longer and not being disturbed by his big fiendly big sister lol!
This is a great site, by the way..i am off work tomorrow as have conjuctivitus so will have a good play!
Looking forward to more hints, thanks in advance.
Laura
xxx