I think we have multiple issues!
Not sure where to begin. Our 6.5 mo. old DS wakes at 10:30, and then pretty much every 1.5-2 hrs. all night long. We are exhausted, and can't figure out why he is waking so much at night. Here is his routine:
Wake 6:30
A
E 7:30 (breastfeed-usually both sides at each feed)
A
S 8:30 (anywhere from 45 min-1.25 hrs)
E 10:00 solids
A
E 11:30 (BF)
S 12:00 (anywhere from 45 min-1.25 hrs)
A
E 1:30 (solids)
A
E 3:30 (BF)
S 3:45 (anywhere from 45 min-1.25 hrs)
A
E 6:30 (BF)
A
S 7 or 7:30
Dream Feed at 10:30
BF at 4:30 waking
However, as I'm typing this "routine" I realize that it is not much of a routine. Despite our best efforts to be on a 4 hr EASY, things are very erratic. Sometimes DS wakes at 5:30 bright-eyed and ready to play, and sometimes he sleeps until 6:45. So the start of the day varies. Nap durations also vary, and b/c they are short, we rarely transition from S to E without an A period in between. The consistent things are that A periods are 2-2.5 hrs. long and E (breastfeeding) is every 4 hrs.
For naps and at night we put him down awake but drowsy. Most often he immediately stands up in his crib and so we leave the room and let him work it out. After about 10 min. he will start fussing, at which point we start PU/PD. We have been doing PU/PD for 2.5 weeks, and a few times lately DS has been going down with only pat/shhh. Maybe we're making some form of progress?!?
From naps he wakes happy and is happy throughout the day. Although late in the afternoon (post nap #3) he can sometimes get cranky, in which case we will put him to bed at 6:45.
At night DS fusses when he wakes, but it is not a full-blown cry. We try to get to him soon after he wakes b/c we have found that if we wait longer, he really wakes up and it is much harder to get him back to sleep. Since we started PU/PD he seems to be waking even MORE at night, but PU/PD has helped make it easier for us to get DS back to sleep after most night wakings. Usually we can reinsert pacifier and pat his back and he will pat his lovey and settle back to sleep. But he is still waking up multiple times during the night.
He was teething, but two teeth have now appeared, so we think that it is over for the time being, though he is still drooling quite a bit, so I suppose he could be getting more teeth.
Sorry for the long message. I wanted to include all of the requested info. so that hopefully someone out there can tell us what we are doing wrong!