So, DS#1 is not terrified of the bed - just doesn't want to go to bed. When we do the wi part of wi/wo, he stops crying immediately, and says "hello! uppy?".
Problem is, each time we do wi/wo, he screams more and louder, and gets more upset, if we wait 5 minutes, (I know, I know, it's kind of CIO, but sometiems DS#2 is crying too and I have to settle him down!!), he seems to settle down on his own.
So, since we accept that some babies cry themselves to sleep (in the sense of a mantra cry, not a CRY!), is it possible this little monkey needs to, too?
Routine: we bath, brush his teeth, read books, cuddle and talk about his day. Then, into the crib and put his babies to bed. etc. Everything is fine until we say "goodnight." Even before we leave he starts crying...Oye..
He was so good, used to say "bye-bye", and just settle down!
Oh, and he wakes up at 5:30 AM, too!
We've tried both earlier bedtimes, and later bedtimes. Neither seems to work.
Anyone?