hi
i'm very lost! i'm trying to follow the EASY routine from the very beginning. somehow it started to slip about month and a half ago. my son (now 5 months old) started waking up at 5:30 am and couldn't settle without feeding. i suspected it's the 4 months growth spurt, so i didn't mind- for a couple of days. then it became routine and he started demanding getting up by then. i just took him to my bed and most of the times it made him sleep till 6:30, sometimes 7.
But then he started waking up even earlier, at 4am. I tried to to the w2s, but because due to some unfortunate twist of events (such as my alarm not working etc etc) i did that a bit chaotic. In result he wake up around 2am and then 4 am. I tried the w2s routine again, waking him up around 1am. He still wakes up at 4 then.
What makes me more frustrated is that when he was approximately 4 months old I followed the advice I found onthis board: I started putting him to sleep between 7 and 8pm. It worked miraculously -turns out that previously I kept him overtired. But shortly after he started waking up around 5. And in the past two days he doens't fall asleep well anmore. Patting and pu/pd seem to upset him moe. He doesn't scream anymore: he cries desperately and is utterly upset. Today i gave up and used a pacifier, after some persuasion he finally fell asleep. I feel I keep missing hints and doing everything wrong, I just can't put my finger on it so I hope maybe I can find advice here.
How old is your child? 5 months
What’s his/her daily routine? 4:00 wake up, feed
4:30ish put back to sleep, sleep for 30 min to 1 hr
5:30 cries, paci and i take him to my bed, sometimes he sleeps
between 6-7 “proper” getting up
6:30 7ish feed
(around 8-9 feed in the past three weeks)
10:00 feed
10:10- sleep for 40min to 1 hr (sometimes. he skips that sleep. he doesn't seem sleepy at all, even if i try to sothe him).
11:30 feed (breast)
12-2,3 pm walk, most of it sleeps, sometimes a feed around 2
4:30 feed
17-18 walk, sleep
7ish bath, dancing , book reading, between 7:40 and 8 bed, sleep by 8:30
10:30 df ( skipped the df last night and he woke up at 1)
What’s nap routine? well sometimes it seems he can't nap if he's not in the buggy on a walk.
How long are naps? from 40 minutes to 2, even 3 hours!
What's bedtime routine? Time? 7 pm bath, then a bit of cam music, cuddling, a few pages of a book and bed btw. 7:30 and 8.
Do you bottle or breastfed?? breastfed- used to df with formula, but for the past 2 days he refuses to take it and i'm sticking to breast
How much? or how long? sometimes he ifinishes after 10 minutes, other times he needs even 30 minutes to be happy.
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed) mostly one
How many wakes per night? 2
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? when he wake up the first time i feed him and he falls asleep immediately after. the 4 am waking is tricky, he can sty up for even an 1.5 hr, crying . sometimes i need to feed him then as well, lately i try to soothe him with paci.
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry? he'smore fussy/ on the verge of screaming and crying. he starts crying louder when he notices me, it looks like he's stretching his arms asking me take him.
What have you tried to settle?? breastfeed. paci. patting, shusshing. every of those methods worked at times, at times failed.
What do you do for A time and how long is it? weeeeel: we play with toys, listen to music and dance. i usually leave him a bit "alone" every 20-30 minutes or so to do my own thing, but only for very short periods (10 minutes or so) (and i'm around him anyway)
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? he had his first teeeth a month ago, i think right now it's nothing going on.
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? (for LO’s under 6 months) cereal no, but veggie soups and some fruit, 1, sometimes 2 times a day. It was bc he doubled his birth weight at 4 months and his dr suggested it would be good to start him on solids.
Do they have a prop? If so what is it? not really. i give him the paci sometimes, but he's not much of a fan, sometimes he rejects it.
Do they have a lovie? not yet
this is such a long post but i tried to write all i could since i am so confused myself (also, english is my 2nd language and it's hard to be brief for me). personally i feel he's eating to often for being such a big well developing baby, sleeping to long when we're having those long walks. also, it might be a factor that he is a reflux baby and i got him used to carrying all the time (since it was good when i was holding in up) and frequent feeds. frankly i have no idea how to change it all.
sorry for this ridiculously long post