How do you serve mac & cheese? noodles with veggies? burrito?? Are these all finger foods? Sorry to be ignorant but I don't get how your LO's are eating these...being fed with an implement or somehow biting off pieces or blending to a puree or
Anything not in small enough pieces or are "hard" get chopped up into smaller pieces and/or run through the food processor to make a consistency that is appropriate. As she learns to eat solids, they get chopped up into larger pieces and/or run through the food processor to make a "coarser" less pureed texture.
Noodles with veggies. I just make noodles, cooking real well until soft, let cool, then chop it up into tiny pieces. I add soft cooked veggies (usually zucchini, squash, carrots) that are chopped into tiny pieces. I also add some tofu for protein (an easy protein that's soft for beginner eaters!), and a bit of broth for flavor. I do something similar with spaghetti, except I drown it in pasta sauce which she loves loves loves!
The macaroni noodles are really soft, easy to gum. They can also be broken down to smaller bits with the fork as you feed.
DD gets burrito when she is nibbling off my lunch. It's very flavorful and she must love it cuz she's never turned it down, lol. I only give the soft parts of the burrito to DD, which is mainly the beans. But she also gets bits of the other fillings (avocado, tomatoes, cheese, rice, etc). I make sure to tear up the meat pieces into very very tiny bits (with my fork & knife) before giving them to her and she's been ok with that. I suppose I could take a small chunk of my burrito and chop it up (or run through the food processor) before feeding it to her, but that hasn't been necessary so I don't do it. She's been ok with me picking out pieces with the fork for her.
These are all foods I try NOT to turn into finger foods, however on those days where she doesn't feel like being fed by me, I will let her use her fingers just to get some food into her mouth.
I tend to manage to feed her these "messier" foods by letting her feed herself with the "less messy" stuff. As long as I give her a little "independence" to feed herself with some foods, she's ok with me feeding her other foods.
Oh when I say food processor, I actually mean a small 3-cup Cuisinart mini-prep style food processor. Making such a small amount in a regular size 7-, 11- or 14-cup food processor wouldn't work out as well. It took me a while to decide to get a mini-prep, but after getting it and using it the first few times to make baby food, it has got to be one of the best items I've bought and I wish I had picked one up earlier. And it's nice to know I can still use it for other cooking uses after I no longer need to make baby food, so it's not like it will be a total waste later on like other baby products can be.
We went to the inlaws yesterday for lunch. One of the dishes my MIL made was a stew with beef, carrots, & tofu ribbons. I picked out the carrots & tofu ribbons, cut them into tiny pieces for DD, and DD loved it. I think it made my MIL happy to know that her GD loves her food.
I'm thinking I should really get into make stews! Of course at home, I would use a knife to cut up the meat into tiny bits (even though it should be soft & tender from stewing) just to make sure DD is ok with it.
DD started the solids game much later than most babies, at around 11 months (instead of the 4+ mos many babies begin at), so the doctor advised us to continue giving her pureed meats until our next appt (which is next month) to see how she's doing. Instead of spending money on baby food jars, I just let her eat the same foods we have for dinner. I just run it through the food processor first, gradually changing the texture from "watery" puree (like the jars) to a fine/"coarse" chop.