I have been posting all over the place about my ds who is 20 weeks. I kept a log for almost a week and noticed that for 3 nights, he was waking at 1AM and didn't really want to eat. Then other nights, he would sleep until 3AM and want to feed. I am exhausted and confused as to what to do. Do I let him simply cry when he wakes up? When he was waking at 1AM, I could go in, hold him for a minute and then put him down and he was okay. I have had trouble putting him to sleep for months, but we've finally gotten to the point where I can soothe him and put him down drowsy and he falls to sleep himself. But in the middle of the night, in the dark, I am surprised that he wakes up and can't get back to sleep. i want to stop always trying to feed him, but nothing else really works when he is wide awake.