Colenliam - i don't cut up the chunks, just put it on their trays and they hold it and bite off pieces. I hear ya about your DS's pickiness...mine will only eat finger foods that are hard, LOL so he's basically living on crackers at the moment
. I'm glad I also have my DD so that I don't get totally frustrated - at least SHE's a good eater, LOL!
Have you tried mixing tofu into his food? Even my picky DS tolerates that particular protein. If you wanted to try something crazy, my sister's baby girl wouldn't eat meat at all so on her ped's recommendation she gave her SARDINES!!! They're full of iron and protein but of course they are also very salty so you want to serve them in moderation...my little niece LOVED her sardines!!! I almost tossed my cookies watching her eat them but thought I'd mention it.
Good luck!!
Sarah