thankyou
I can see what you mean about being fair to lo, it feels pretty mean and unfai to give something then just stop it. He is a touchy textbook so seems to need lots of help winding down and staying asleep etc. I just could kick myself cus i only started BF him at night again recently when he was ill so Ive set him up with another habit to break, but i so want to be consisitent and not keep giving him props - PUPD - I often imagine Tracys voice saying stick with it etc cus its so hard to do alone.
Im finding changing his routine for 3 meals a day difficult - trying to work out what really works for him.
since illness this is what happens
early wake sometimes 4 sometimes 5.00/5.30 try to lull back to sleep (have taken to spare bed recently because Im afraid Im exhausted)
wake 6.30-7.00 BF/bottle
play dress etc
8.30 Breakfast (9.00am at daycare) cereal/fruit/milk
9.30 nap (45mins to recently 1hr20 Hurray!!!) (15mins-30mins at daycare sometimes none!
midmorning juice/water
playgroup/sing and sign class/play etc
12.00 Lunch veg/fruit (trying fish etc)
between 12.30-1.30 nap depending on when woke from last (45mins to 2hrs)
3.00 milk - ricecake
play
4.00-4.40 catnap sometimes in pram when walk dog if not in daycare)
play
5.30 Dinner - cereal/veg/fruit Milk
6.15-6.30 bedtime routine bath, stories, softplay, milk
sleep 7.30 (8.00 latest)
since ill often wakes 2-3 times before midningt and sometimes wakes midnight, 3.00or 4.00 5..00-5.30
sometimes if I feed him at 5.00 he will go back to slepp till7.00 Once or twice he has only woked once. I keep a food diary etc because he developed eczma at 6 months but cant see any pattern.
(he used to sleep til 7.00 before teething kept waking him and I responded with AP! probably)
I can see that naps are a problem, illness and incinsistent routine with daycare - I have found a childminder who will now look after him 2 days and will be more consistent with naps and care - daycare one day - they are fine but I think the noise and busyness doesnt suit my los temperament.
many thanks you girls are lifesavers
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