Thanks for replying, guys! Here is our info
How old is your child? 4.5 months
What’s his/her daily routine? See below
What’s nap routine? Strip down to diaper, pull the shade, walk slowly around the house while I sing quiet songs to him (ab
out 2 times around, in his room turn off lights, watch fisher price aquarium till he starts arching, turn on fan and music, swaddle and put in crib.
How long are naps? From 30 min to almost 2 hours. Different all the time!
What's bedtime routine? Time? I am playing around with the times, but right now, bath at 6:00, then massage, story, turn off lights, long BF, cuddling with Mom, turn on music and fan, swaddle, and in bed awake between 7:15 and 7:45. He has to sit up after he eats for a while or he will spit up everything,
Do you bottle or breastfed?? Exclusively BF
How much? or how long? 10 minutes during the day, but before bed and at night, up to 30; trying to nurse to sleep, I think!
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed) 1, except at night when he will take both sometimes
How many wakes per night? From 3 to as many as 7 or 8!
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? Cries and cries. sometimes, acts starving. sometimes, acts like he wants to go back to sleep but can't. Sometimes, I can give him the paci and he goes right back to sleep (for a while), sometimes, he will eat and then fall asleep while I'm holding him because I can't lay him flat right away (I know, but what can I do--if he spits up in bed, he's wide awake again). I always wake him up for 2-3 minutes before putting him back in his crib. Sometimes, he will stay up for over an hour--like he thinks it's daytime.
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry? Real crying usually, though I'm guilty of going in to a fussy cry because I don't want him to get fully awake.
What have you tried to settle?? Paci! P/S stopped working about 3 weeks ago. Haven't tried pu/pd--I'm scared it will make things worse!!
What do you do for A time and how long is it? Trying to stretch to 1.75-2 hours. A variety of things: walks, tummy time, singing, vocal play, playgym, chewing toys, bouncer seat. books, playing with Dad. Actually, not much independent time, now that I think of it...
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? Has 2 teeth breaking through, but we've had sleep issues from day 1.
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? (for LO’s under 6 months) No
Do they have a prop? If so what is it? paci
Do they have a lovie?No
I'll post my routine later...
Thank you!!!!!!