Gnatliz - I just wanted you to know that we have been doing (or should I say trying) Babywhisperer/EASY since pretty much day one with our 8 week old, and sometimes it seems like every day is different! Please know that it can be frustrating, hard to read lo's cues, routines change, etc! It does get better, and some days are better than others
There have definitely been times when I feel like falling in a heap b/c I feel as if I can't figure my lo one out! And then she smiles one of her big smiles and I know it's all OK - we'll figure each other out sooner or later!
I think before 3 months of age, it's can be quite a guessing game trying to figure out their routines/wants/needs, and that's where BW is such a help. As Calum's Mum said, by starting a routine, you get a better idea of what your lo needs, even if you think it might be difficult to read their cues. We by no means have anything down pat, but at least I feel confident knowing that around every 2.5 - 3 hours, my lo needs to eat, and if she's fussy way before this time, it's something else. Each day you will get more and more confident and things will sort of fall into place.
And when they don't, you come here!!
You'll find all kinds of people going through the exact same thing - and it's so reassuring to know you're not the only one. And then you'll see lots of good advice, and some of the different ways people handle/tweak things. It's very encouraging. So don't stress about going "exactly by the book."
I've found the easiest thing for me (so I don't get all Type A and controlling as I'm apt to do!
) Is to take baby steps. So when I've gotten help from the boards here, I just focus on that one problem, like stretching my times to a 3 hour EASY, or working on naps, or tweaking wind-down routine. It can be overwhelming, so working on one thing at a time helps. Know too, that at times during growth spurts, illness, developmental milestones, things are bound to go haywire - that's when I have to remind myself to just go w/the flow, and we can work on the routine in a few days if necessary.
We're currently having the same difficulties as you w/naps, so that's our goal right now! Keep at it, and come here often for the great advice and encouragement. The ladies here are super helpful. OK - - a bit of a rambling post, but I didn't want you to feel hopeless
Erin