could you post your day, so we can have a better look??
also i remmember i had this problem with DS, 'cause he was taking tons at his 8pm feed, so of course wanst humngry at 11pm, so what i did was to give him only an oz or 2 at 8pm (just enough to hold him till 11), and then by 11pm he started taking a full feed at the DF, and give or take a week, he stopped taking the 1-2ish am feed. Ohh and also, he started habitual waking at 2:30 sharp, so i gave him the paci and he stopped (just in case this happens to you), so i got full time sleep from 11pm till 4-5ish am YAY!!!!
(and he was sleeping from 8pm till 4-5ish YAY!!!
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hope this helps