Thanks so much for getting back Heather.
No, he woke on his own crying and tried everything to get him back to sleep but an hour later his voice was hoarse from crying, he was absolutely knackered and so we took him out in the car. We do the same routine every night before bed. He has his bottle, then upstairs (nappy change if needed) close the curtains, turn on our air filter, swaddle him, put him in his moses basket and give him his dummy, talking to him and tellinh him its time for sleep. When he begins to fuss, then we start shush and go from there. He may fall asleep at first but I dont think since birth, he's slept from 7pm.
I know that he's still young and crying is his way of communicating but its the screeching that's so hard to listen to, esp. when hes absolutely exhausted from doing it, and his throat sounds so sore. It doesn't seem to matter what we do, whether we do shush, hold him, rock him, walk anything.. am going to continue with the rountine but until he's grown out of this restlessness in the evening, I'll do anything to keep the little man happy - included trips in the car.
Nice to know that I am not alone and that this is normal!