We have had off and on decent naps and going through SO many changes. My LO sleep is always effected by new life events, crawling, standing, sitting. And not in a positive way. He gets 'stressed' as the doctor puts it and has a hard time staying asleep. He is 10 months old and we have never stopped having to sleep train. Falling asleep has never been the issue, it was staying asleep. Now it is both..........
Our routine for the longest time has been 7 am out of crib (usually wakes between 615-630)
then back for nap at 9am - he had been pretty easy to go for his nap anywhere from 40-1.5 hours
nap again at 1 pm - anywhere from 40 min to 1.5 hours.
Bedtime 630 we were pretty firm on that.
So most awake time was 2-2.5 hours except time between last nap and bed which on his best days was 3-4 hours. Nights he has been doing ok.
Now all of the sudden we are dealing with seperation anxiety as well as so many other milestones.......I think seperation anxiety it the big thing with his falling asleep. He has now started to FIGHT me tooth and nail with his naptime routine. He screams and arches and kicks his legs in my arms so I put him down. He screams so I pick him up, he screams more......it seems to be worse in my arms. So this afternoon I kept him up 15 miutes longer than he wanted to, thinking he would be so tired this would be avoided. Well he did scream, kick, gag, cough.........but it only lasted 5 minutes vs. 20. It is pretty exhausting for me, too. As someone who doesn't like cio, I am almost forced to. I do pat his butt but he then just tries to stand up and I have to lay him back down. Today I ended up walking out of his room both naps.
His naps are MUCH shorter. Now both are just 40 minutes and he is waking up crying. AH I feel so bad for him.
Any thoughts on A time?
Thanks