How old is your child?
9 1/2 month old boy
What’s his/her daily routine?
Until about 6 weeks ago:
7am wake and bf
8am porridge with fruit
9am nap (1.5 - 2 hrs)
11am bf (not much interest)
12am meat, veggie (abut 100grams)
1pm nap (1.5 - 2hrs)
3pm bf
5.30 cat nap (30 mins)
6pm porridge
7pm bf and bed
Currently bf often during the night due to wakings.
What’s nap routine?
Nap times without fuss
How long are naps?
2 x 1.5 - 2hrs, + cat nap (45 minutes)
What's bedtime routine? Time?
PJs, singing, bed - 7pm
Do you bottle or breastfed??
bf
How much? or how long?
5 - 10 minutes total, every 4 hours
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed)
both
How many wakes per night?
currently every 2 - 3 hours
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up?
Used to wake when hungry, feed and back to sleep (10 minutes). Currently awake at 10pm, 2am, 4am, 5am, 6am and 7am. Absolutely inconsolable, screaming, arching back, will take breast once calmed down. Will calm down if I walk around a little, but screams immediately when layed down (not just his bed).
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry?
Mostly mantra
What have you tried to settle??
Music, patting, PU/PD, cuddling, bf
What do you do for A time and how long is it?
Playmat with toys, stories, singing - 4 hour easy routine
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones?
Has 6 teeth and rolls everywhere - does not sit independently or crawl!
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? (for LO’s under 6 months)
Do they have a prop? If so what is it?
Paci for sleep only
Do they have a lovie?
Yes, since birth
I really hope someone can help, we are at our wits end. Our DS only ever slept through over a period of about 3 weeks. For about 6 weeks now he has been waking for a feed at around 11pm (about the norm for him) but whats new is that he is waking at 1.30 am, fusses at first and after 5 minutes goes into a mantra cry. When I pick him up he arches his back, nothing helps - cuddling, rocking, singing, talking. After 15 minutes or so he'll calm down, till I try to put him down again. If he takes the bf, he goes back down without fuss, but mostly won't take it. Then he wakes up crying at 4, 5, 6 and 7 and i bf him immediately each time, otherwise he crescendos.
I think I have already done some classic accidental parenting here, but I have no idea what the 1.30 am issue is. During the day he is happy and smiling (everyone comments on how happy he seems).
Please help, it's breaking my heart to see him cry so hard.