Congrats on the new member of your Family.
When we did the dreamfeed we would pick her up as gently as we could and sit in the rocker and let her eat as much as she wanted to take. We always had a night light in her room and just used the light from that. You'll need to see what works for you
I would also suggest that you move bedtime to 7pm instead of 9:20, this will prevent your LO from getting overtired. When he goes down at 7, make the routine different from naps and make sure you don't wake him at all, if he wakes inbetween bedtime and dreamfeed resettle and don't feed, unless its 10pm or later, then feed and resettle. Within days you'll notice he will stop wakeing inbetween.
Do bedtime routine at 6-330 with a final feed right before bed, then into bed, and dreamfeed at 10:30-11. This ensures he is topped up for the night and that as I said he isn't overtired. Earlier bedtime is always better for LO's.
Is it possible at all for you to pump and do a bottle? I ask because its an excellent way to let dad participate in the feedings, and also many LO's will feed easier on a bottle then the breast. Its just a thought
He is right on track of where he should be for 7 weeks, but what you will find is as the dreamfeed is established that 1/2am feed will slowly move later and eventually the second waking wont be a night waking anymore
Then as he gets older you can work on the final night waking. One waking at a time is always easier
When he wakes now you can start waiting as long as it is only a fuss. Give him about 5 minutes or so to try and resettle. If he starts to cry go right to him, if this doesn't work or makes night wakings worse, stop and try again in a week or so. But if you give him the chance he can start learning to self sooth, I know its not easy, but its well worth it.
When you feed him at night do you do it in your room or his? if your doing it in yours start doing it in his. Also avoid diaper changes unless he is durty or soaked through. The less stimulation the better to not start bad habbits.
Try to avoid 3 hour wake times, not easy I know, but it'll prevent overtiredness and cranky baby. Out him down 30-45 minutes after he wakes to avoid overtirdness and encourage naps. The goal at this age is 3 1.5 hour naps. As he gets to between 3-5 months, depending on your LO, it'll be 2 naps of 1.5 and 1 45 minute nap. You want to try and avoid A times that are to long and nap times that are to long. Its a balenceing act, but it is workable.
Doesn't sound like paci is a prop so thats great
I wouldn't worry about a Lovie, he's still a little young for one. You can introduce that at 3-4 months time
You sound like your on the right track and your doing a wonderful job.
HTH