Hi -- amazing what a 2 hour nap can do for a mummy! DH let me sleep and did I ever have a deep sleep! Wow!
Anyway ... when I got up, DH said he was crusing the 2nd BW book and he really thinks that we should be doing the 4 hour EASY. LO was really struggling with his feeds today and come to think of it, yesterday as well. He was supposed to eat at 715pm tonight and he totally refused the bottle. He's only been taking 5 ounces and then an hour later we give him the additional 2 ounces. It's now 819pm and he is playing so happily on his gymini mat.
OK, to clarify his routine ...
E - 700am
S - 830am - 915am
E - 1000am
So, when he is up from 915am - 1000am, we try to put him back to sleep and if he won't go down for another short nap of 10 minutes or so, we put him the bouncy chair and pray that the vibrator on the chair will put him to sleep. We don't play with him at all, b/c it's supposed to be sleep time. After the 1000am feed he's up until 1130am. This afternoon, while I was sleeping, DH said LO fell asleep while eating at 415pm, so he let him sleep and LO slept for 20 minutes and then was up for quite awhile. No, we don't count the 45 minutes he was up before it was time to feed, as LO shows no signs of being tired. When he's tired he freaks out and rubs his eyes, etc... It's now 1030pm and LO took his entire bottle of 7oz. at one sitting at 820pm ... so that's a 4 hour stretch he went. I gave him his bath and sand quietly to him and put him in the one arm swaddle. I was then on the phone with my Dad & Mum as soon as I walked out of his room ... 44 minutes and 56 seconds (according to the telephone) later, he was crying. I turned him back to his side and he fell asleep immediately. I then called my Mum back and she thinks that since he now can roll over, he is waking up out of frusturation b/c he just wants to change position ... since all we have to do to settle him is change positions and sometimes pat him or put the soother in. So I went back in and just swaddled his body & feet. I'm desperate to try anything, so we shall see if this works.
Sorry this is sooo long winded ... it's hard to condense all these happenings that are stressing us out!
Thanks for all your advice ... it is greatly appreciated!
Allison =)