My son used to sleep in a swing. On Fri, we started putting him down in the crib at night. Prior to that, I had been napping him in the crib each day for about 2.5-3 weeks.
The first night, he cried for about 40 minutes before falling asleep. The next night he fell asleep while watching a crib soothing device (projects pictures on ceiling), no tears. But he woke up about every 3 hours to eat. Last night, he fell asleep on the bottle and we put him down but he woke up about 2 hours later crying. And then about every 2 hours thereafter.
Tonight, we will be sure to put him down "drowsy but awake." And if he cries, how will I know if he's learning to self soothe? He sleeps swaddled. Should I unswaddle one arm to let him suck his hand or thumb? He does that during the day. We swaddle him though b/c he normally jerks himself awake or hits himself in the head with his arms.
Regarding the many wake-ups, I'm going to try to soothe him without feeding him and only feed him once or twice total in the middle of the night (this is hard b/c he goes right back to sleep if I feed him and I need to sleep)
How old is your child? 13 weeks
What’s his/her daily routine? Naps at least every 2 hours
What’s nap routine? Put in swing for a few minutes, bring upstairs, rock in chair and pat stomach to lullaby cd (while watching ceiling fan), swaddle, put down awake, switch cd to vacuum cleaner, hold pacifier in mouth for him for several minutes and sh, leave room, return if crying within 2 minutes, repeat until asleep
How long are naps? generally 40-45 minutes. Once in a blue moon, he'll surprise me with a 2 hour nap.
What's bedtime routine? Time? Bath, sing and rock for 2 songs, suckle at breast (low supply), bottle, bed; between 8 and 830 (but sometimes he takes awhile to fall asleep, but usually asleep by 9)
Do you bottle or breastfed?? Breast before bottle but I would just call him bottle fed
How much? or how long? eats about every 3 hours during the day, takes between 3-6 ounces. However at night, he eats more
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed)
How many wakes per night? Right now, every 2 hours
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? I generally give him a bottle and he goes back to sleep. However, if he wakes really close to a previous feeding (less than 2 hours), then I'd try to get him to go back to sleep (either by letting him suckle or suck pacifier). Also, in the early AM, I sometimes put him back in the swing
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry? Crying, I usually get there within 2 minutes
What have you tried to settle?? Pacifier and rocking
What do you do for A time and how long is it? I generally feed him right away, b/c one time I tried to get him to go down for 40 minutes with the pacifier (and swing) and he didn't and I just ended up feeding him anyway
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? No
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? (for LO’s under 6 months) No
Do they have a prop? If so what is it? Eating and pacifier
Do they have a lovie? There's a stuffed animal in his crib with him and a mirror and a crib soother on the side