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Re: Working moms/mums - come and share tips and support!
« Reply #180 on: September 25, 2007, 02:03:57 am »
Thank you, I'll be taking my mothers milk tea to help with the supply, lets hope I'll get enough time to pump.
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« Reply #181 on: September 25, 2007, 09:55:17 am »
lyndsy & valeamalia - well take pictures of grae with you also at work or in trip.. it sometimes help to pump too!!

lyndsy - well if if pumping does not work too good at work.  then don't bit yourself! Just go with the flow and it will work fine!
On my side, after 2 months of pumping twice at work, I got sooo fed up that I am now doing combined feeding: 2 bottles during the days and 3 BFs at home (so one in the morning & 2 in the evenings) so i do not have to pump but still keep the BFs that I can do. It works very fine and my milk supply just adapted, i did not had any low supply moments at all and I do not have pain in the breasts during the day or so. For me it was a very good alternative to pumping that got me crazy and too stressed at work: fitting the pumping in the middle without interruption was difficult!
so you know it is not all or nothing, you can always find a way in the middle that works for you if pumping does not. May be then pumping sounds more relaxed too, no pressure! just try and see how you do!!
now for me my last 3 BFs are even more precious then!! and I feel more relaxed to leave my LO to the creche or other care, they will give formula bottles and that is also easier for me I do not need much planning on this too.
Physically i thought it was too hard to keep BF full time and working during the day, then I would be soooo tired I would not enjoy my time then nor at home nor at work! well and elisa got sick quite a bit and so me too so that also did not help to feel less tired i guess!
well good luck at work and you know where we are if you need to chat the first days to get some support !! I tell you it took me some days to feel I could think of something else than my LO;D ;D
Juts also be carefull around the 4-5 weeks after your return at work, those are generally the hard weeks where the tiredness start to kick in and the routine starts to be in place with the creche and so on, I see around me that this was the hard bit fro all my co-workers and mums, so don't plan too many activities in the week ends around that time and keep them to relax when possible!
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Re: Working moms/mums - come and share tips and support!
« Reply #182 on: September 25, 2007, 22:57:54 pm »
Thanks for the advice Muriel....what's "creche"?



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« Reply #183 on: September 27, 2007, 12:26:28 pm »
sorry!! "creche" is the dutch & french word for daycare!! :D
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« Reply #184 on: September 27, 2007, 18:58:04 pm »
Thanks Muriel.....oh ya forgot to mention this but DH is dutch, his mother was born in the "Hague". His grandmother was a war bride, during WW 2, Grandfather was a soldier from Canada, didn't speak dutch, Grandma didn't speak English....they communicated through friend who could speak both languages. Then got married and  had DH's mom and moved to Canada....cool eh? DH has been there a few times as he still has relatives in Amsterdam.

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« Reply #185 on: September 28, 2007, 20:04:17 pm »
DH is dutch, his mother was born in the "Hague".
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hey that's were i am!! how cool!!!! ;D
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« Reply #186 on: October 03, 2007, 16:29:12 pm »
Hi, thanks for all the advice, I am in the middle of my trip, trying to pump 5 to 7 times a day, sometimes its really hard, since I am on tours and bathrooms are hard to find. But I manage, even had to pump on the bus (hidden by a sweater with DH guarding) but the good thing is that DH is being really supportive.
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« Reply #187 on: October 03, 2007, 16:37:57 pm »
Ana-  Good job at trying to keep that up!!!
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« Reply #188 on: October 04, 2007, 13:38:46 pm »
well done ana!!
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« Reply #189 on: October 21, 2007, 03:34:19 am »
Hi ladies, I am back and believe it or not, I am BF my LO again, I was afraid she wasn't going to latch again but it was as if we had never been apart. Thank you all for your support.
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« Reply #190 on: October 21, 2007, 12:47:59 pm »
that's great news ;D ;D
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« Reply #191 on: October 21, 2007, 16:51:53 pm »
That is fantastic news!  Glad that worked out for you!!!
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« Reply #192 on: October 21, 2007, 20:41:04 pm »
The only bad news is that we have thrush again, anyone has an idea of how to get rid of it for good?
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« Reply #193 on: October 21, 2007, 20:42:47 pm »
 ;D ;D Great news Ana! Unfortunately I don't know much about thrush......

Well week one of work is over, and my boobies are adjusting well to the pumping mania. On Friday (including the Dreampump) I pumped 4 times ::). I realized on Tues that my little mini electric would not hold out so I ordered a Pump In Style Advanced...hoping it will be here sometime next week. I can't wait, as a bottle leaked in my cooler and I lost 3oz  >:(. I had the throw out the cooler too (it was insulated cloth). Everyone at work is great about the pumping, and the men are the most supportive believe it or not. I actually like the fact that I can lock the door and have me time NO interruptions!

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« Reply #194 on: October 22, 2007, 01:03:05 am »
oh no!  A bottle leaked!?!!  I could cry every time I lose milk.  White gold that it is.  The Pump In Style is nice.  I find it pretty efficient
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