Hi,
My dd is 8 months next week and in the past 3 weeks has decided that she only wants to feed herself. I give her a spoon but the food ends up on her hands, in her hair, in the highchair - basically anywhere but in her mouth! If I try and feed her she clamps her mouth shut and turns her head away. She loves finger foods, but again, I'm worried about how much she's actually eating.
I know that she has got her 2 bottom teeth coming thru so I'm blaming it on those as her appetite has been decreasing.
She was at 3 meals a day of fruit and veg purees and had a couple of tastes of fish (won't touch chicken and thought beef was too tough for gums). She was doing well altho she's never been a huge eater.
Every mealtime is now so disheartening. I don't let my frustration show to her but I am getting to the end of my tether. I have made so many meals for her which end up in the bin. I tried jars which she did like but has even gone off those.
I have now had to up the milk (she was down to 4 ozs but now up to 7ozs) and she has been waking up in the night for a feed (5ozs which she downs in an instant). I know I shouldn't be feeding her in the night but I feel like I'm starving her otherwise and it's cruel.
What can I do? I'm dreading lunchtime. Has anyone else been here?! Heeeellllpp!!