Hi
I have a baby girl 4mths of age. I also have two other kids 4 and 2. my kids are all 20 mths apart. so I am a busy mom. I learned with my third child not to nurse to sleep because I had problems with #1 and sleep. I tried the baby whisperer method with #2 and it worked great. I had a c-section with #2 and #3 ...this starts my problem. It was so much easier to bring the baby into bed because it hurts to get out of bed all night.
My lo sleeps with a soother so I am just happy that just can get to sleep on her own. Her first nap in about 1.5 hours after waking and she sleeps for about 1 hour tops. we then continue this all day. up for 1.5 hours down for 1 hour. If she does not take a nap around supper time and I put her down early like around 7 she treats that like a nap and is very fussy. I want her down for the night around 7:30-8 and then I want to try and bring her to a 7p.m bedtime closer to 6mths of age. I will now post the answers to the questions and see if anyone can tell me where I should begin. I am not sure if I should take the paci away or what.....oh, when she goes down for the night she get's up after 2 hours. this is when I have just gone to bed and I am already tired from dealing with three kids. so I just bring her into bed and nurse her back to sleep. I have tried to give her the soother back but her she get's upset and starts to cry. it would probably take another hour to settle her back of wailing. so far she stays in my bed for the rest of the night and is up constantly looking of the boob. I guess it is time to cut the co-sleeping and get her in the crib allnight. I have had a sinus cold for almost 3 weeks and cannot fight it because I am soo tired. I never get sick. I also have to patience during the day and just need quiet time for my brain to rest.
okay so here are the answers to the questions
How old is your child? 4mths
What’s his/her daily routine? wakes up, nurse, sits in bouncy chair with rattle while the other two kids eat breakfast, tummy time, off to bed for nap - she has no trouble settling
What’s nap routine?soother, blanket against cheek, kicks out of swaddle
How long are naps?50 minutes - she has done 2 hours before - maybe twice
What's bedtime routine? Time? same as nap - bedtime around 7:30
Do you bottle or breastfed??breastfed
How much? or how long?15 minutes every 3 hours still, I will nurse to comfort her cries even though she does need the milk
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed)one side for each feed
How many wakes per night?2-5
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? fussy and then cries if I do not bring into my bed
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry?fussing then turns to a cry
What have you tried to settle??give soother back, pat bum
What do you do for A time and how long is it?tummy time, walks, bouncy chair - awake time is about 1.5 hours
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones?no
Have you introduced cereal? Why, howno