Hi All,
thanks for the advice, really helpful. I kind of thought just to keep doing what I was doing but you know sometimes how you doubt yourself and it was a bit of a shock the bedtime horrors after having it good for so long. Anyway, update, on the night I posted I got a 2am call to come and be tucked in, she only has a sheet over her grobag for tucking in purposes so next day I told her it was too hot and she didnt need it any more, so it's gone. I did walk in walk out about 4 times the next night, the night after went to her cot 2 and the other 2 times just stuck my head in the door and said night. She tried every trick in the book, including " Medicine, medicine, L needs medicine" cos I pretended to give her calpol the night before. Anyway dh has been gone on a business trip for 2 nights and we have done things my way, no tv at all, it's usually him who watches, no exciting games or chasing or swinging, lots of helping Mummy tidy up, nursery rhymes and books plus moved bed time back only by 5 mins but this gives her 30 mins to settle before the first external call to prayer and for both of these nights she has settled easily and I have not had to go back in. I also did a lot of talking about bed time after her afternoon nap and what is expected of her and that she doesn't need to call me and her dolly needs to sleep so she has to sleep too. I keep the tv on at normal volume but the usual household noises of me cooking and getting dishes out of cupboards etc is missing as is me and dh chatting, do you think this is somthing I should worry about? I hope things don't change when dh comes back but I think it will be a harder battle to get him to go with the new routine than it was to get dd back into it.
thanks again for all the advice and hopefully I haven't jinxed myself now. ( I usually do )