We didn't add the 3rd meal until Tyler dropped the catnap...we just had a really hard time fitting it all in! I know where you're coming from about feeling like she spends all of her time eating, but it's only a temporary thing. She will probably be ready to drop the catnap within the next month or 2, like it or not, and that will give you lots more time. I think your routine looks great the way it is!