How old is your child? 4.5months
What’s his/her daily routine? Wakes at 730, we don't have a really rigid schedule but it's around 3.5 EAESY, I watch for his signs and he sleeps when he needs to, with cluster feeding at night before bed which is 730-8pm. I nurse a lot during the day because he's a very slow weight gainer.
What’s nap routine? Naps 1hr at 9am for first nap most times, 1.5 for the second 1230pm and 1-1.5, 330pm for the last
How long are naps?
What's bedtime routine? Time? bedtime is bath, rock in the rocking chair and singing, cuddling...usually 8 pm
Do you bottle or breastfed?? B/f
How much? or how long? Varies..He usually eats like crazy in the am but it tapers off at night which is why I cluster, or he'd wake alot more than he is I think
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed)both most times, at night wakings only one side
How many wakes per night?3-4
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? He squirms in bed until he starts to fuss, then I feed, he stays asleep, and I reswaddle and he sleeps instantly
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry?Fussing
What have you tried to settle?? nope
What do you do for A time and how long is it?read, alot of walking with the sling, swimming at the pool, toys and videos, singing, peekaboo
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? yes he's been teething for months now and that is when the night wakings started to be so frequent
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? (for LO’s under 6 months)nope
Do they have a prop? If so what is it?no props other than needing the boob to feel drowsy but we are working on that
Do they have a lovie?nope
So the question I have is...How do I get out of a df now that I have incorporated it. He wakes more often, poops more often at night which is disastrous to the rest of the night!, and he now wakes ealier and earlier in the night FOR his df. He isn't asleep for his df, because now he expects it so he wakes to get it. Is this the way it should be? He is also sleeping 3 hour stretches, whereas he was sleeping 5 hour stretch to begin with. I really think I screwed up a good thing by doing the df and now I really regret it. He wants it now too, so I have to try over and over to get him back to sleep because I know he doesn't need it. He won't eat much at df either. Please someone help!
Thank you so much, if there's anything I missed just let me know. Julie