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Offline vboncs

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I dont know when he is night waking!
« on: August 04, 2006, 13:13:22 pm »
ok, my son does not let us know when he is awake.  I have a video monitor & during the day,I hear him stirring in themonitor & see he is awake -45 min naps:(  (he is just turnign 6 months)
I will post his routine below but here is my problem...
the past few weeks it's getting worse & worse.  during the night I cannot hear him waking (he doesn't cry or even coo) I have been catching him at around 3-ish 4-ish then 5-something..i think he is waking sometime after midnight & then doing the 45 min nonsense he does during the day.  When i observed him this morning I saw him up (I just happened to roll over & open my eyes to look at the monitor) he was up at 5:15..took him 15 min & was back to sleep at 5:30 slept until 6:15 then awake 15 min & asleep until 7:15 (I didn't wake him to feed at 7 because I felt he needed the extra 15 min.
I dint know how long this has been going on.
My poor baby has been so cranky/overtired lately I am guessing this has been the culprit. 
He also does not feed well when he is like this.  He will fight feeding & only want 1/2 his bottle. When he is like this I am so confused as when to feed him or put him down for sleep.
we always fought to be on easy since 4 months old.....it seemed to be finally coming together & then this! (well we always had 45 min naps though!)
here WAS his routine
7-wake 8 oz
845 nap 45 min (sometimes if lefthim alone he would re-settle himself in 15 min & sleep another hour!)
9:30 or 10:30 wake & cereal
11:00  8 oz
12:45 nap 45 min (sometimes if lefthim alone he would re-settle himself in 15 min & sleep another hour!)
3 8 oz
4-5:00 30 min nap
6- veggies & fruit
6:30 bath & wind-down (bath excites him)
7pm bottle & asleep by 7:30 (I feed him after his bath because it calms him down to relax for sleep)
this morning he was EXHAUSTED when he woke.  i tried to feed him quietly in his room & put him right down but he wasn't having it.  Also whenever I tried to feed him when he woke in the night he would not settle down to sleep.
I am desperate here :(
please help!!!
Valerie

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Re: I dont know when he is night waking!
« Reply #1 on: August 06, 2006, 11:58:08 am »
hmmmmm........

are you going in there when you notice??  does the video monitor not have sound, or is he just NEVER making noise?? 

since he is in that 4-6month range, this sounds developmental.  if he's not crying, i really would leave him to it - not much you can do unless he's crying, kwim??

however, i think the 45-min naps are the overall culprit here.  i would visit the nap board for help on extending them.  likely, once he is sleeping better during the day, he will sleep better at night. 

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