Hey you two!
Thank you for responding so quickly! I just thought, I'd explain myself: My posting was in no way meant to give people the message to forget everything the BW books have tought us! It was meant for people who are maybe like me, who are struggling with sleepless nights, just wishing their baby would go back to sleep. Yes, you are right Zoey, I had very bad trouble with rocking my baby to sleep when I wrote my first posting, but after your reply that my son would probably sleep better if he would learn how to settle himself, that's exactly what I did. It only took about 4 or 5 days and he was going to sleep happily in his own bed without any help. And you were right, his sleep patterns improved so much. But that's maybe why I didn't even think of the possibility to rock him to sleep when he started having trouble sleeping again because he is teething. For me it was like the "chapter of rocking him to sleep" was over and done with until my friend reminded me that there is another way. It is still very important to me that he can go to sleep by himself and settle himself back to sleep and I totally agree with you, I don't think you should use this method of rocking him for too long so he doesn't get used to it. But maybe there's more people out there like me who simply didn't think of rocking him to sleep, and maybe that's just what baby needs, just for a night or so, not forever, mind you. I put Jakey to bed like normal every time now, and he goes to sleep with no problem what so ever. But if I can hear or feel that he is having real trouble going to sleep or back to sleep, maybe cause his teeth are bothering him, I don't hesitate anymore to just take him out and rock him. That was all I was trying to say. You have helped me so much on this site not just with sleeping problems but with so many other things as well. So I hope my message comes over the right way now and can maybe help others to just try it out, it might be all your baby needs for the moment.
Love, Jenny