Hi dannymomma,
Welcome to BW. =)
I'm not sure if I'm going to be much help but I usually wake up my LO to stick with our EASY schedule. I've always been told that babies like predictability so that's why I wake up my LO to keep him on schedule. I have tried to let DS decide when to wake up but I found that it messed up our schedule as he may go down for his naps later or he may have a harder time going to sleep at night.
Mel