Hello, I have a 4 week old dd and am a new mom. No one told me motherhood would be so hard! My DH and I are so sleep deprived we don't know our names most days. And I don't think I have it as bad as some people out there. Here is my question (one of many!!): My LO is pretty close to a textbook baby, with a touch of grumpy on occaison, and had been waking fairly consistently at 2:00 am and 5:00 or 6:00 am for feedings--dream feed was at 10 or 11. Not fun, but to be expected. Lately, her pattern has changed and we are exhausted. She has become more and more difficult to put down for naps during the day unless she is in her swing (accidental parenting at work here!!) and at night instead of sleeping 3-4 hours after each feeding, she is having one good "long" sleep after the dream feed--~ 4 hours from 11:00-ish to 2:30 or 3:00 am which is about 5 hours since she has eaten. Then she wakes, eats 3-4 oz on bottle, but following this nighttime feeding, she is very difficult to get back to sleep and will only sleep an hour or less before waking again. This will usually be no more than 2 hours after she has eaten the last time, so I don't think she should be waking for food--she isn't making her hungry cry just waking up restless. if I do feed her, she will eat again. Is she going too long without food from the dream feed at 10:00 until waking at 2:00 and therefore throwing off her schedule? Or, is this an indication of some issue with her sleep patterns during the day? I've gotten out of the habit of having a good sleep ritual before naps. Any insight would be greatly appreciated!!
Thanks,
Desperate new mom