Hi everyone,
We need some help! We'd had some early wakings(pre-6 am) lately, and we've been treating them like we always do (wait to see what the cry is and try to wait until 6 to get LO if he's not too upset). In the past, if we were consistent, he'd usually straighten himself out in a couple days whether it was early wakings, short naps, night wakings or whatever. But of course, once you're used to it, it changes!
Our LO is now on his second week of waking up before 6 every day and the last two nights, he woke up before 5! He's on a single nap, usually 1 1/2 hours long (goes down between 11:45 - 12:30 on most days), but yesterday he only slept 30 minutes! I know that being overtired is a possibility now, so we're trying to increase opportunities to sleep (we put him down early last night and he woke up before 4!), but he also seems really happy and in a good mood all day.
I've eliminated teething (I think -- he has everything but his 2 year molars), noise, lights, props. His nose started running a couple days ago, so maybe it's all been related to that, but I'm not sure because the early waking preceeded it by a while. However, since he has a cold now, I'm hesitant to try wi/wo. And if this is all cold related, do I just roll with it, or do I try to help him so that the early waking doesn't become a habit after the cold is long gone?
The really confusing part is that all the disruptions are erratic. It might be 5:45 one morning, 5:15 the next, then 4:30, and then back to 5:45. The nap might go well or not. Some nights he sleeps really soundly until 4:30, then wakes, other nights he's restless off and on, but then sleeps closer to 6:00.
Prior to this period, he's been a really good sleeper with only a few bump times, sleeping 11+ hours at night and good at putting himself back to sleep, so this continued inconsistency is unusual and leaving us frustrated about how best to help him back to the path of good sleep.
I think I've read about every post on sleeping related to kids this age, and I'm also wondering if it's something that's really common developmentally at this age and requires a new round of sleep training (WI/WO or whatever) even for kids who have previously been good sleepers or if keeping to the previous ways of reacting is the way to go?
Can anyone help? Thanks!