Thanks Beca and Melissa for your imput.
Yes, I believe she was overtired too. But the thing is that this is also a routine to go there every Friday night for dinner and spent time with grandma. This is the only time we can go there. There is also her little cousin of 7months old who comes there too and they play together with grandma and the mums, while the dad go to play their cricket game (they are in a club and have games only on Friday).
My point was that before we started the EASY Routine, she was very much ok with that. Because then her bebtime was very late too. She would have dinner around 8.30pm then she would sometimes sleep till 11 or 12 then i feed her again and then sleep till morning (in her bed). Some nights, even when we are at home, she wouldnt sleep until 11 or 12. Just wants to play and be with us.
When i go to family gatherings, I would usually bring her bassinet with us and she when it was her nap time, we try to put her to sleep, i would hold her in my arms or sometimes grandma's arms, and she would fall asleep, then we would put her in her bassinet in a quieter room. But sometimes she won't sleep because she wants to play with everyone else. She really likes the attention she gets from the others.
But since her routine has changed, and that i am trying to get her to sleep on her own (without me or anybody else holding her to fall deep asleep before we can put her down) we didnt do that last night. I saw she was a getting tired, so i went into the bedroom and put her into the bed, surrounded by pillows and making sure she was safe, she immediately fell asleep and but woke up after 15mins.
My point is we dont want to change this routine of going to grandma's on Friday and play with cousin etc. But when we go there, how do i put her to sleep there. Should i hold her in my arms, or let anyone else hold her? Should i keep bringing her bassinet to make her sleep there? She is used to sleeping this way before when we are out of the house and she does have any problems with it. And usually when we got back home, i would feed her and put her to sleep (in my arms) and she would usually sleep fairly quickly and sleep till morning.
Thanks for trying to help me out understanding this issue, and please do let me know if you think i am doing this the wrong way!