Hi, I have a 4month old baby girl and I am not sure that our day is what it should really be at her age...
Its not the same everyday due to naps being short but it goes more or less like this:
E 6.30am
A 6.40am
S 7.40-8.40 (just 1 hour sleep). Once did 1/5 hrs!
E 9.00am
A 9.10am
S 10 (short catnap, 45mins). Try my hardest to extend but no luck so far!
E 11am
A until noon
S 12pm-12.45 (again catnap). Try to extend but no luck. Will p/u and she will show tired signs within 15mins so again back to bed...sometimes takes another catnap.
E 2pm
A 2.10-3.30pm
S 3.30-4ish (yet another catnap)
E 4.30
Bath 5.30
Bed 6pm
Wakes up again after45 mins and I sh/pat her which puts her down for another 50 mins or so. Then again wakes up and then I feed her (treat it as cluster feeding???) then sleeps till 11.30 or so then we feed, then awake at 4ish (feed again), awake at 5.30 (not sure what is going on here??? personally I am pretty tired by that time cause I have to wake up for dd1 at 6am). So feed again at 5.30 to get some more sleep out of her, then she finally wakes up at 6.30 to start the day!
Ok, I obviously have alot of issues here, main one being that she does not seem to nap very well at all throughout the day and nights are...well, I think just about everyone else's baby seems to sleep through the night but mine!!!
I breastfeed on one side (sometimes two). She is not interested in the other side most of the time. The feeds are about 10 mins long (but was told not to worry cause apparently they get very efficient by that age). She goes to sleep on her own. The routine is after activity (which as you can see she does not stay up too long at all), I take her to room, close the curtains (pretty dark in there), quick BF (to get her drowsy) and then placed in cot awake. I am not sure if it is the quick BF doing damage (or maybe I am in total denial) but I don;t have time to rock her, etc cause I have to hurry back to my other dd (who by this stage is banging on the door, wanting me to come out and play)....so the quick BF does the job, gets her drowsy and then she falls asleep within about 10 mins. Sometimes cries (mantra cry) but usually talks and then asllep. So I know she knows how to fall asleep, why is she then having trouble re-entering sleep all times but the morning nap???
My other daughter's naps did not regulate until about 5-6 months so is that it - should I just wait or does increasing A time then increase S time (cause they are more tired)? I just don't want to get her overtired cause she then has a real hard time falling asleep and needs lots of shh/pat to get there.
Should I introduce a bottle before bedtime to get her more full? The thing is, I really didn't want to give her formula at this stage (at least until she is 6 months, I guess) and I've tried to express a few times and because I am in such a hurry all the time, I don't get much out. She has lots of wet nappies and does one good poo a day. We are due for a check up in 2 days so I would be interested to see if she's in the correct percentile for weight, etc... She puts on weight for sure though I am not sure if its enough...
Finally I wanted to know if her sleeping in our room has anything to do with poor night sleep. I have a separate room for her but it is right opposite dd1's room and because dd2 is such a poor sleeper, she constantly wakes the other one up and then dd1 is cranky all day. So I bought a portacot and have her sleeping in our room at night. Does she know that we are there (me, mainly)? and thats why she wakes up so often? I deffinately want her to sleep in her own room eventually (dd1 was in her own room by 9 weeks but is a completely different baby
).
Ok, not sure if there are things I should have covered which I didn;t but just want to know if anyone can input on the crazy days we go through.
Thank you in advance
Layla