Hi there,
I hope you don;t think we are a bunch of routine nazis over here!!!
LOL
BW techniques are focused to be a balance between parents and babies. If that balance becomes askwed by an illness then by all means go with it!! It's all about the bond of trust between child and parents, and that's giving them extra TLC when ill.
For example, my ds had surgery when he was 8.5 months old. He had 3 hernias removed. When he got out of the OR the surgeon got me and told me to lay with him in the recovery room. I did not leave that boy's side until we got home 3 days later. Upon being discharged from the hospital the doc tells me that Sant can't do any strainful movements, such as rolling over, sitting up, crawling etc. This is regarding a spirited boy who rolled over at 3 weeks!!! So for the next 21 days Santiago was carried all day long, slept between me and dh and just did not leave my side. I would never have even thought of ignoring the docs orders OR my son's need for me.
When he was able to be on his own it took about 4 days to get him back on EASY. I just did my best to not do uneeded AP, like nursing him to sleep etc. I just tried to not do too much damage that would included removing a prop, sleep training and adapting to a new routine KWIM?
Take care of your ds and give him all the love and attention he needs. Just don't lose sight of the fact that he will get better and some spoiling he may not actually need.
Big Big {{{{HUGs}}}}
- Beca